“To all those who are looking or on the verge of giving up, DON’T, let God lead you and trust him”
May 13, 2010 No Comments
We wanted to share our story with faithmate and others on this God (Jesus) designed website. Carlos and I met on faithmate on July 25, 2009. I was listed under as a visitor and Carlos was a member and I came across his profile and there was something about him that caught my eye 
Within about 5 minutes I received a yahoo messenger request from Carlos and we started our conversation chatting. Things just went from there, we decided to exchange numbers, had a few conversations, decided to meet, had dinner and started dating. We just clicked. We have so much in common it’s crazy, we both knew what we were looking for in a mate and from the conversations we had we both knew that we were meant to be.
As months went by we started to develop feelings and were witnessing what it really meant to love someone, pray for, help, be more patient, understanding, caring and open minded to one another and what Jesus talks about in his word when it comes to love. Carlos is a minister of the gospel so he already had his heart set on finding a virtuous women of Jesus Christ. I wanted a man that would love Jesus Christ more than he loved me, I needed and wanted a man of God, someone that would accept me for me and all my flaws, someone to grow in the word with and not someone that wouldn’t preach to me but be my equal. Carlos proposed on November 22, 2009 at church during service, I was so shocked and surprised. We started picking dates and trying to figure out how we were going to pay for everything (basically stressing ourselves out) until Christmas day. We had decided to go to justice of the peace because that’s all that we could afford. We went to our pastor to 1) start our counseling and 2) to let him know that we decided to go to justice of the peace. He objected to going to justice of peace, he said that we (the church) would give us a wedding ceremony and reception. That was nothing but God’s doing.
Long story short our church gave us a wedding and we didn’t have to pay for anything, it was all FAVOR!! We were married on January 1, 2010. We just want to say thank you to the person(s) responsible for faithmate.com and for listening to what Jesus has instructed you to do. You have allowed two people that have been hurt in the past to give love another chance and for God’s will to come to pass (which was bringing us together). To all those who are looking or on the verge of giving up, DON’T, let God led you and trust him, and it might not hurt to join faithmate 
. May Jesus continue to bless those who meet on faithmate.com
First of all I want to thank you for talking me into subscribing you our the tool that God used to send me to my Boaz. First let me start off by saying I will be 44 on the 16Th I never dreamed that I would be seeing another wedding day you see Ayesha I had gotten to a place in my singleness where I asked God to make me whole and to start with my mind I had had enough of bad relationships so I had come to realize that it was not the guy but me becoming whole well God did just that and before I knew it I had become very content single mind you Ive been divorced for over 15 yrs but I was happy but one day in may of 2008 I decided to buy a gospel today magazine as I went through the magazine I noticed a advertisement that said streaming faith.com where you can view ministries 247 I decided to go back on, while looking for pastor Adolf out of Beaumont TX faithmate pop up now this is June 2008 I seen pastor noel Jones and other pastors that has been at my church the potters house then I seen where thy were talking about singles I said to my self I did not know christens believe in single web sites you see I was not for these sites I thought it made you seem desperate well I called to really see if this was real and you answered make a long story short I went on line June 22, 2008 on June 28, 2008.
I met my Boaz Richard lee Aldridge did not know that both of us was sitting in the Potters House you see Ayesha it has to be God to meet someone in a church that has so many members we never crossed paths any ways I was on faithmate 4 days we went on our 1st date that evening 6/28/2008 he proposed to me 2 months later on my birthday 8/16/2008 I had just turned 43 so their is hope for the middle age. But Ayesha more then anything that I want people to get from my testimony is that I allowed God to make me whole I had fallin so in love with Jesus that when Rick came he Scared me because I knew he was different but I was afraid to come out of my contentment as a single whole women so I fell on my knees I said God do not let me be led by my flesh show me who this man is and he did just that (through Ric I felt he would be my husband but i kept it to my self until Ric confirmed what i was feeling) I know you said a few lines but i felt i need to share a little more with you you pick what part in how you want to post it my dear but as long as I know you know most of our testimonies. I know you get a lot of emails but I want to encourage you God has not forgotten your work of labor you will be rewarded I’m sure of that count this position not lightly your right where he wants you to be. We appreciate you keep up the good work oh yes we will be married on September 26Th, 2009 at the Potters House our home church pastor Robinson is marring us. I wish you could be here you started it (smile).
