http://www.faithmate.com/read/2009/10/your-woman-gains-weight-how-should-you-handle-it%e2%80%a6and-is-it-%e2%80%9cun-christian%e2%80%9d-to-call-it-quits/ Get real advice from contemporary Christians Tue, 09 Mar 2010 03:30:37 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 http://www.faithmate.com/read/2009/10/your-woman-gains-weight-how-should-you-handle-it%e2%80%a6and-is-it-%e2%80%9cun-christian%e2%80%9d-to-call-it-quits/comment-page-1/#comment-510 Cassandra Thu, 28 Jan 2010 22:41:41 +0000 http://faithmate.com/singles/?p=108#comment-510 Attraction and Love are two different things. I can't say I blame the brother who wants his woman to remain fit. I mean I am not in the situation, but I can't say that I want the man that I marry to lose his physical attractiveness. Yes, I agree that you should engage in activity with them to keep them fit as the time in which you met them. I think the problem is really about being comfortable and not taking care of yourself the way that did when you were be sought or seeking. All the days you walked, or went to the gym, and the way you counted the calories back when, you need to be mindful that those are behaviors that you can maintain. Your eyes are what gains the initial "hello". Which means what you see has to stimulate you in order to do so. Attraction and Love are two different things. I can’t say I blame the brother who wants his woman to remain fit. I mean I am not in the situation, but I can’t say that I want the man that I marry to lose his physical attractiveness. Yes, I agree that you should engage in activity with them to keep them fit as the time in which you met them.
I think the problem is really about being comfortable and not taking care of yourself the way that did when you were be sought or seeking. All the days you walked, or went to the gym, and the way you counted the calories back when, you need to be mindful that those are behaviors that you can maintain.
Your eyes are what gains the initial “hello”. Which means what you see has to stimulate you in order to do so.

]]> http://www.faithmate.com/read/2009/10/your-woman-gains-weight-how-should-you-handle-it%e2%80%a6and-is-it-%e2%80%9cun-christian%e2%80%9d-to-call-it-quits/comment-page-1/#comment-469 Olivia Fri, 11 Dec 2009 18:03:56 +0000 http://faithmate.com/singles/?p=108#comment-469 After reading your concern of you loosing attraction for your woman of two years, I wonder if you love her at all. I have hardly ever in my life seen a woman not gain weight at some point in her life. You have to go to the gym with your woman. Diet with her. Have you seen the movie, "Why did i get married?" You can try to do that if you love her. No human being on the earth remains the same. You know that right?Love is not something that turns off. It does not turn off NO MATTER WHAT! I know what I am saying is true because if God's love does not turn off when we do wrong, then ours does not either. We are made in God's image.It is ok to look at other women but if you are going beyond a look, it is because your mind is going astray, or you just dont love the woman youre with. If you want to know what true love is, find a couple who have been married for many years and talk to them. If you are a saved man then you know that God requires you to have one wife. If you have issues with a simple matter like weight, what are you going to do when you get married and your wife gains weight for one reason or another? I don't mean to minimize your concern for you partner to be a certain size, you certainly have that right. I dont want you to be tricked into having multiple partners in life due to issues that are easily resolvable. You are strong, you are wise, and most of all you have wisdom, knowledge and understanding. God have given this to you. I have 2 brothers and so I can speak a little. No matter who you end up with, no matter how perfect she may be in your eyes, after you have been married for a while there will be something, some issue. The real issue to be seen will be what type of character is in you. What your moral fiber is and How much you listen to the voice of God. I wish you every happiness in life. After reading your concern of you loosing attraction for your woman of two years, I wonder if you love her at all. I have hardly ever in my life seen a woman not gain weight at some point in her life. You have to go to the gym with your woman. Diet with her. Have you seen the movie, “Why did i get married?” You can try to do that if you love her. No human being on the earth remains the same. You know that right?Love is not something that turns off. It does not turn off NO MATTER WHAT! I know what I am saying is true because if God’s love does not turn off when we do wrong, then ours does not either. We are made in God’s image.It is ok to look at other women but if you are going beyond a look, it is because your mind is going astray, or you just dont love the woman youre with. If you want to know what true love is, find a couple who have been married for many years and talk to them. If you are a saved man then you know that God requires you to have one wife. If you have issues with a simple matter like weight, what are you going to do when you get married and your wife gains weight for one reason or another? I don’t mean to minimize your concern for you partner to be a certain size, you certainly have that right. I dont want you to be tricked into having multiple partners in life due to issues that are easily resolvable. You are strong, you are wise, and most of all you have wisdom, knowledge and understanding. God have given this to you. I have 2 brothers and so I can speak a little. No matter who you end up with, no matter how perfect she may be in your eyes, after you have been married for a while there will be something, some issue. The real issue to be seen will be what type of character is in you. What your moral fiber is and How much you listen to the voice of God. I wish you every happiness in life.

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