Comments on: When to tell a potential partner about your past as a stripper http://www.faithmate.com/read/2009/06/when-to-tell-a-potential-partner-about-your-past-as-a-stripper/ Get real advice from contemporary Christians Tue, 27 Apr 2010 04:23:30 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: TesE http://www.faithmate.com/read/2009/06/when-to-tell-a-potential-partner-about-your-past-as-a-stripper/comment-page-1/#comment-456 TesE Wed, 02 Dec 2009 18:01:31 +0000 http://www.faithmate.com/read/?p=598#comment-456 I thank you for your answer it was very helpful Although I have not had that situation I find that your response can be used for various situations so, thanks again for your support TesE I thank you for your answer it was very helpful

Although I have not had that situation

I find that your response can be used for various

situations

so, thanks again for your support

TesE

]]> By: Michael Onen http://www.faithmate.com/read/2009/06/when-to-tell-a-potential-partner-about-your-past-as-a-stripper/comment-page-1/#comment-270 Michael Onen Tue, 23 Jun 2009 11:12:42 +0000 http://www.faithmate.com/read/?p=598#comment-270 The reason why your girl acted that way is because she's hurt.It's not time to walk away bro!Believe me.It will take time but if you really love her you're gonna have to win back her confidence,and that's gonna take some time.You've messed up already,why mess this up again by leaving!She's healing and you need to be part of the procees,that is if you still want the relationship to work.Be patient it'll work out.Not so you feel guilty but put yourself in her shoes. The reason why your girl acted that way is because she’s hurt.It’s not time to walk away bro!Believe me.It will take time but if you really love her you’re gonna have to win back her confidence,and that’s gonna take some time.You’ve messed up already,why mess this up again by leaving!She’s healing and you need to be part of the procees,that is if you still want the relationship to work.Be patient it’ll work out.Not so you feel guilty but put yourself in her shoes.

]]> By: Lady D. http://www.faithmate.com/read/2009/06/when-to-tell-a-potential-partner-about-your-past-as-a-stripper/comment-page-1/#comment-251 Lady D. Sat, 20 Jun 2009 07:52:16 +0000 http://www.faithmate.com/read/?p=598#comment-251 You made a mistake by sleeping with someone else while having a girl friend. Sex encounters is not for christians it is a sin. And there are consequences to sin. This is a consequence of it and now you should either take time and swallow it to gain her trust again. Going back to the source of your problem is not an option. You made a mistake by sleeping with someone else while having a girl friend. Sex encounters is not for christians it is a sin. And there are consequences to sin. This is a consequence of it and now you should either take time and swallow it to gain her trust again. Going back to the source of your problem is not an option.

]]> By: Ree http://www.faithmate.com/read/2009/06/when-to-tell-a-potential-partner-about-your-past-as-a-stripper/comment-page-1/#comment-239 Ree Fri, 19 Jun 2009 17:40:36 +0000 http://www.faithmate.com/read/?p=598#comment-239 Kay: First, I would ask myself "Why did I engage in this sex encounter in the first place"? There could be many reasons. Your girlfriend may think that this is an indicator of how her future will be with you. Although, this may not necessarily be the case. It is good that you are facing these issues before marriage. Honestly, it will take her some time to build trust. Whenever infidelity seeps into a relationship, it not only destroys trust but it also does something to the other person's self esteem and feelings of self worth. If you are willing to labor for the relationship, then you can pray and wait for God. Kay:

First, I would ask myself “Why did I engage in this sex encounter in the first place”? There could be many reasons. Your girlfriend may think that this is an indicator of how her future will be with you. Although, this may not necessarily be the case. It is good that you are facing these issues before marriage. Honestly, it will take her some time to build trust. Whenever infidelity seeps into a relationship, it not only destroys trust but it also does something to the other person’s self esteem and feelings of self worth. If you are willing to labor for the relationship, then you can pray and wait for God.

]]> By: kay http://www.faithmate.com/read/2009/06/when-to-tell-a-potential-partner-about-your-past-as-a-stripper/comment-page-1/#comment-200 kay Sun, 14 Jun 2009 01:23:28 +0000 http://www.faithmate.com/read/?p=598#comment-200 I had a sex encounter with a girl who was not even my girlfriend while i had a relationship. my girlfriend and I stayed in different parts of the world later we got seriuos in our relation and got engaged to each other.a year later when we began planning for marriage i thot of disclosing the past experience to her. she got very dissapointed with me to the extent that we had to undetake a blood tastefor STDs the results were negative for all stds sincethen, our relationship has never been the same. i have tried to show that it was the past and i am changed to be a better future husband but all is to no avail what should i do.leave and look for the other mate or continue to live under the frustrated relationship? I had a sex encounter with a girl who was not even my girlfriend while i had a relationship. my girlfriend and I stayed in different parts of the world later we got seriuos in our relation and got engaged to each other.a year later when we began planning for marriage i thot of disclosing the past experience to her. she got very dissapointed with me to the extent that we had to undetake a blood tastefor STDs the results were negative for all stds sincethen, our relationship has never been the same. i have tried to show that it was the past and i am changed to be a better future husband but all is to no avail what should i do.leave and look for the other mate or continue to live under the frustrated relationship?

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