Comments on: The man you love still lives with his ex…why you must move on to find fulfillment http://www.faithmate.com/read/2009/06/the-man-you-love-still-lives-with-his-ex%e2%80%a6why-you-must-move-on-to-find-fulfillment/ Get real advice from contemporary Christians Tue, 09 Mar 2010 03:30:37 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Wise10 http://www.faithmate.com/read/2009/06/the-man-you-love-still-lives-with-his-ex%e2%80%a6why-you-must-move-on-to-find-fulfillment/comment-page-1/#comment-496 Wise10 Tue, 12 Jan 2010 03:27:30 +0000 http://www.faithmate.com/read/?p=702#comment-496 Sounds like a young lady with an older man, this is their game like some of the writers say move on. You are one of the 70% women that goes to church on Sunday Morning, hear the word of God and go home and get in the bed with somebodies man and everybodies spirit. Then write these sobbing letter when you know it's wrong in the beginning. My advice to you is to learn how to LOVE yourself quit looking for love in all the wrong places. If I can recall you started at the begining of this letter saying you have a child do Love your child more this married man. I have not heard one thing about your child, YES he loves his kids and woman he's been with for all these years. The question is do you love your child. Sounds like a young lady with an older man, this is their game like some of the writers say move on. You are one of the 70% women that goes to church on Sunday Morning, hear the word of God and go home and get in the bed with somebodies man and everybodies spirit. Then write these sobbing letter when you know it’s wrong in the beginning. My advice to you is to learn how to LOVE yourself quit looking for love in all the wrong places. If I can recall you started at the begining of this letter saying you have a child do Love your child more this married man. I have not heard one thing about your child, YES he loves his kids and woman he’s been with for all these years. The question is do you love your child.

]]> By: Ann http://www.faithmate.com/read/2009/06/the-man-you-love-still-lives-with-his-ex%e2%80%a6why-you-must-move-on-to-find-fulfillment/comment-page-1/#comment-489 Ann Sat, 02 Jan 2010 22:55:48 +0000 http://www.faithmate.com/read/?p=702#comment-489 Sister-I know where you are.Been there not too long ago.I was involved with someone who told me his live in companion was an associate.Any way we became involved and ended the relationship.Began a relationship again, because I refused to have sex with him,he told me his relationship with other women were" friendly".It hurts.Save yourself the pain.I am twice your age so I know how it feels.See yourself as the jewel God has said you are Sister-I know where you are.Been there not too long ago.I was involved with someone who told me his live in companion was an associate.Any way we became involved and ended the relationship.Began a relationship again, because I refused to have sex with him,he told me his relationship with other women were” friendly”.It hurts.Save yourself the pain.I am twice your age so I know how it feels.See yourself as the jewel God has said you are

]]> By: Elect Lady http://www.faithmate.com/read/2009/06/the-man-you-love-still-lives-with-his-ex%e2%80%a6why-you-must-move-on-to-find-fulfillment/comment-page-1/#comment-474 Elect Lady Sun, 13 Dec 2009 19:22:10 +0000 http://www.faithmate.com/read/?p=702#comment-474 I think the advice given by Regina is excellent. One thing I notice in many of the issues posted is that people are so prone to disregard what's right and proper for the sake of emotion. I guess maybe things are too black-n-white for me, but it is wrong for any man to be living with someone he's not married to, and doubly wrong to be entangling the emotions of another woman in his "complicated" life. If he is truly married to that woman, then again, his character leaves something to be desired as he is "complicating" the lives of two families for his own selfishness. So why is he such a perfect dude in these instances? He's not worth it. If he'd do this to his "ex," (entangle another woman's woman's emotions while living a "complicated" life), he'll do it with you. If he strings you along while having a "complicated" life with his ex, he'll string someone else along if the ultimately comes to you. HIstory repeats itself. So again I ask, what's so great about a man like that? I think the advice given by Regina is excellent. One thing I notice in many of the issues posted is that people are so prone to disregard what’s right and proper for the sake of emotion. I guess maybe things are too black-n-white for me, but it is wrong for any man to be living with someone he’s not married to, and doubly wrong to be entangling the emotions of another woman in his “complicated” life.

If he is truly married to that woman, then again, his character leaves something to be desired as he is “complicating” the lives of two families for his own selfishness. So why is he such a perfect dude in these instances? He’s not worth it. If he’d do this to his “ex,” (entangle another woman’s woman’s emotions while living a “complicated” life), he’ll do it with you. If he strings you along while having a “complicated” life with his ex, he’ll string someone else along if the ultimately comes to you. HIstory repeats itself. So again I ask, what’s so great about a man like that?

]]> By: Myra http://www.faithmate.com/read/2009/06/the-man-you-love-still-lives-with-his-ex%e2%80%a6why-you-must-move-on-to-find-fulfillment/comment-page-1/#comment-372 Myra Tue, 18 Aug 2009 20:22:26 +0000 http://www.faithmate.com/read/?p=702#comment-372 I am sorry to hear of your dilemma. After 20 years don't you know what's up? You should have taken into account that he was married first of all. Those things never work out for the good. It's funny how we can live on hope that something wrong will torn out right. Let go and let GOD, my sister. We do reap what we sow and you don't want that after already waiting 20 years in vain. I am sorry to hear of your dilemma. After 20 years don’t you know what’s up? You should have taken into account that he was married first of all. Those things never work out for the good. It’s funny how we can live on hope that something wrong will torn out right. Let go and let GOD, my sister. We do reap what we sow and you don’t want that after already waiting 20 years in vain.

]]> By: Denay http://www.faithmate.com/read/2009/06/the-man-you-love-still-lives-with-his-ex%e2%80%a6why-you-must-move-on-to-find-fulfillment/comment-page-1/#comment-348 Denay Sun, 02 Aug 2009 19:22:47 +0000 http://www.faithmate.com/read/?p=702#comment-348 I met this guy when I was 13yrs old and we started dating seriously when I was 21yrs old. I stepped out on him and had a child, but he didnt want to break up but I left him because of my guilt. I was never with my son's father it was just one of them things. So it' been 20 something odd years and we are still braking up and getting back together. We have stop talking to each other so many times for more than 2 yrs and no matter what something keep drwaing us to each other and it's starting to really get to me because I love him and he loves me but we cant never get this right. He's hurt because we tried to have kids together before and after I cheated on him and it never happened. Our famlies grew up together so you must understand the attachment here. I've been married now divorce and now he's divorcing his wife. We never was together while we where married. Now I really want this to work but he's not so sure. He says we should be friends because of the unstableness of our relationship, and he needs to get his divorce etc.. The problem is when he first left his wife we was always together then he slowly started to drift away from me. He will call me but he wont come over like he use to, to visit me. On top of that it's another women that supposly is a friend of his left a comment on one of my online pages saying that I was stupid because he didn't want me. I asked him about it and he said that this girl is not his lady and he dont know why she did that. I am hurt and confused and I really dont know where I stand with him after all it has been 20 yrs of my life.. Please help me figure out what direction I am really going in. I met this guy when I was 13yrs old and we started dating seriously when I was 21yrs old. I stepped out on him and had a child, but he didnt want to break up but I left him because of my guilt. I was never with my son’s father it was just one of them things. So it’ been 20 something odd years and we are still braking up and getting back together. We have stop talking to each other so many times for more than 2 yrs and no matter what something keep drwaing us to each other and it’s starting to really get to me because I love him and he loves me but we cant never get this right. He’s hurt because we tried to have kids together before and after I cheated on him and it never happened. Our famlies grew up together so you must understand the attachment here. I’ve been married now divorce and now he’s divorcing his wife. We never was together while we where married. Now I really want this to work but he’s not so sure. He says we should be friends because of the unstableness of our relationship, and he needs to get his divorce etc.. The problem is when he first left his wife we was always together then he slowly started to drift away from me. He will call me but he wont come over like he use to, to visit me. On top of that it’s another women that supposly is a friend of his left a comment on one of my online pages saying that I was stupid because he didn’t want me. I asked him about it and he said that this girl is not his lady and he dont know why she did that. I am hurt and confused and I really dont know where I stand with him after all it has been 20 yrs of my life.. Please help me figure out what direction I am really going in.

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